Attraction
You attract what you are, not what you want.
What a powerful concept. To let logic follow through: If we want to find what we are looking for, we must first become what we are looking for. Wow. You mean to tell me that you're not going to find a guy who wants to settle down and start a family at a rave? You mean you're not going to find a nice girl you can bring home to mom at a strip bar? Exactly.
I can't tell you how many people I see living the old cliche of looking for love in all the wrong places. First of all, I believe that true love hits you when you least expect it. It never fails. You search for months for mr/mrs right, and as soon as you stop looking is when they fall right in your lap.
The key is to just live your life. Work on finding yourself and the partner will come. I truly believe that to find cool people you have to do cool things. Learn how to hang glide, take an art class, do a local play, learn a second language. Work on bettering yourself and the opportunities to meet someone special will surely present themselves. Because the best things in life happen when we're busy making other plans.
What a powerful concept. To let logic follow through: If we want to find what we are looking for, we must first become what we are looking for. Wow. You mean to tell me that you're not going to find a guy who wants to settle down and start a family at a rave? You mean you're not going to find a nice girl you can bring home to mom at a strip bar? Exactly.
I can't tell you how many people I see living the old cliche of looking for love in all the wrong places. First of all, I believe that true love hits you when you least expect it. It never fails. You search for months for mr/mrs right, and as soon as you stop looking is when they fall right in your lap.
The key is to just live your life. Work on finding yourself and the partner will come. I truly believe that to find cool people you have to do cool things. Learn how to hang glide, take an art class, do a local play, learn a second language. Work on bettering yourself and the opportunities to meet someone special will surely present themselves. Because the best things in life happen when we're busy making other plans.
posted by Jason at 1:03 AM
4 Comments:
So true. It's a shame that most don't realize this.
Do you mind if we use this on www.baggagereclaim.co.uk? You will be credited of course:)
This is so true!
Hey Jason,
Your post made it on the front page! It's the Blog Post of the Week. Feel free to check it out at http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk
Also, if you would be interested in writing a weekly column for the site, we would love to entertain the possibility!
Let me know what you think. Have a nice day.
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